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Psyche Revived by Cupid’s Kiss, is the romantic marble sculpture by Italian artist, Antonio Canova, 1787.
With Valentine’s Day in the air, let’s talk about the “Kiss-Kiss!”
Sweet Lalique Lovebirds are kissing on Mottahedeh Pink Lace china… a darling Valentine decoration for your table!
Yes, kissing on the lips is for lovers! But, the tradition of the “kiss on the cheeks” is a recognized form of endearment between friends, family, and occasionally, business colleagues. Touching cheeks and kissing in the air is known as the “social kiss” or the “air kiss.” It is one step above a handshake in terms of devotion, friendship, love, and gratitude. It is a prevalent social practice for a greeting, and a farewell, in many countries such as the USA and Europe. In France, this common practice is referred to as “Faire la bise.”
With the continued challenges of Covid, be aware and respectful of how others wish to greet you in reference to the social kiss. Note their body language and also, if they keep their mask on. Take your cue from the other person and be respectful of their space and comfort zone.
The kiss sound comes from your lips in the air, and not a “mu-wah '' voice sound, right? But, if you are practicing safe distancing, I think that the gesture of hands up while giving a “mock air kiss-kiss” from afar, along with the “mu-wah mu-wah” voice sound, is a joyful and respectful substitute for a social kiss greeting!
The general guidelines for a social kiss are:
A social kiss is usually from right cheek to right cheek. But sometimes, depending on the culture and tradition of a country or region, it is from the left cheek to the left cheek. If you’re in another country, take the cue from them… and, good luck with that!
Your lips never touch the other person’s cheek.
Your cheek does not need to touch the other person's cheek; it’s your choice.
Ladies, if you wear lipstick, just be careful not to leave it on the other person’s cheek!
A gentleman properly waits for a lady to extend her hand first for a handshake. For the social kiss, he should also wait for a lady to be the first to lean forward, which is the cue that it is appropriate for a social kiss.
In some countries, one, up to three social kisses are common. My advice is to go with the flow and just be prepared “to do the dance” for that surprise third, or even fourth kiss!
A kiss is the first language of love that we understand! Holding and kissing the newborn twins my daughter delivered in England is a cherished memory.
Happy Valentine’s Day and kiss-kiss to you all!
XX
Holly
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