Etiquette at a seated performance: Ballet, Opera, Theatre

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Attending any performance at the Opera Garnier, an architectural jewel in Paris, never ceases to delight and thrill! The colorful ceiling, a fresco commissioned to and designed by Marc Chagall in 1964, is a clever juxtaposition to the formal archite…

Attending any performance at the Opera Garnier, an architectural jewel in Paris, never ceases to delight and thrill! The colorful ceiling, a fresco commissioned to and designed by Marc Chagall in 1964, is a clever juxtaposition to the formal architecture of this renowned opera house.


It is getting cold outside, which makes it a splendid time to attend a performance at a ballet, opera, theatre, or even the cinema! As such, here are a few things to consider.

While it is not necessarily required to dress up, it shows respect to the performers… And, why not? It is always fun to have an excuse to dress up! Wearing a coat and tie or a cocktail dress is considered internationally appropriate unless Black Tie is specified. 

Being punctual is paramount! If you are tardy, be prepared to be asked to wait until the usher deems an appropriate time to seat you, for instance, at the end of an act or the interval. Once my husband and I were set to attend the Opera Bastille but were delayed in Parisian traffic. When we arrived, we were required to wait inside next to the closed doors of the performance for twenty minutes. Be polite and do your best to arrive early. Should you arrive late, be patient as you wait. 

When entering or leaving your appointed row, it is highly debated between etiquette experts as to which way one should face. While Americans tend to face the stage, Europeans tend to face the back of the theatre. I prefer to face the stage, with my back to those seated. If you are seated, it is always considered polite to stand, especially if the rows are narrow and tight.


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Forbidden Faux Pas

No-no: To leave your cell phone on, or to check it!  

What is done: Turn your cell phones off. Even if they vibrate, it can be distracting for those near you. Abstain from checking your cell phone as the light on the screen is also distracting.   

 

No-no: To wear a hat during a performance.

What is done: If you wear a hat, be considerate and remove it, or check it with your overcoat before the performance.


A rather “unique” installation of two gold tractor tires by French artist Claude Lévêque was installed in the grand “gold foyer“ to celebrate the 350th anniversary of the Palais Garnier opera house for the year of 2019, and will be removed in Januar…

A rather “unique” installation of two gold tractor tires by French artist Claude Lévêque was installed in the grand “gold foyer“ to celebrate the 350th anniversary of the Palais Garnier opera house for the year of 2019, and will be removed in January 2020!